Yes and herein lies the problem. Ironically, my judgmental-ism is actually sound advice for an otherwise young and seemingly free woman who is certain to face a dismal, lonely future.
The trend toward increasing promiscuity, a cesspool of random and indiscriminate sexual relations, has broader repercussions. What a lot of these women fail to realise is that their current lifestyle of indulging sexual pleasures will inevitably lead to pain later on in life.
My concern, and the reason why I tend to get prudish about the matter, is because it becomes increasingly difficult for decent guys to find a good woman to get into a meaningful relationship with - less the guy is desperate and will accept getting involved with women who have an extensive sexual resume. I personally wouldn't touch such, as any well meaning, emotionally healthy guy wouldn't.
What invariably happens is that these women who have lived the lifestyle, finally wake up one day and come to the poignant, disturbing discovery that they are no longer desired by the very men who they slept around with when they were young and desirable. Such women, funnily enough, though predicable, then suddenly awaken to the realisation that what they really want after all, is the 'nice guy' who they rejected in years gone by.
The problem facing these women now, is that they have typically grown extremely fat and shabby. So when they come to the above realisation, and so embark on pursuing the nice guys who they previously dismissed, the nice guy, who has looked after himself all these years, outright rejects these women in disgust - and rightly so.
This is where people like myself, and other older single guys, fall victim to the ruthless sex fest dating pool. We're expected to now pick up the scraps left over after such women become redundant from their previous sexually free and promiscuous lifestyle.
We are the innocent victims of their brutality, where these hideous burly middle-aged heifers attempt to ensnare and capture us into their web of romantic manipulations and offerings. They typically exploit guys like myself, by using the workplace or other such communities, where we cannot easily escape or reject forthrightly, as we are expected to behave to corporate standards, and putting these women in their rightful place may be deemed discriminatory or offensive.
I get this this enough and frankly it really shits me. I end up blatantly ignoring these women. Some of them are so unrelenting in their pursuit it really amazes, and suffice to say, disturbs me. They are clearly harboring strong delusions because they were seldom if ever rejected when they were young and much better looking and so on. So they carry these delusions into middle age, some of whom get grossly overweight, and even smell, and yet expect some guy who has looked after himself all these years to respond kindly to their flirts and gestures.
So while I appreciate the concerns that morgue and others may have with regard to working harder to get laid by these women while they're young, hot and desirable, I hope morgue and others can extend some understanding toward how we might feel - us guys who are at the deteriorating end of the female processing line.
Kind regards
Pacesetter
where the hell are you guys looking?
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Originally Posted by JR Ewing
i ended up just walking away, you can be slutty and still have class doing it ... like waiting to get outa the place and going somewhere
