Sooo.....

[Shwing79]

So, sometimes, I get so pissed off at this role that women are supposed to play.

I watched that show on Tyra about women going to strip clubs, and some of the women are saying that they like to go so that their man can see, but come home to them, which I totally understand, and I'm right there with them.

We are not supposed to like sex. We are supposed to like cleaning. We are supposed to want to be feminine.

Sometimes, I'm just not in the f'n mood. Yes, I work at home, but trying to figure out what the hell these ESL doctors are saying, looking up new medications, new medical equipment or procedures. Plus, dealing with everyday issues, and the fact that us girls that are into fitness, you are trying to get in a work out in between job and family. I know that if I don't get a work out in, I'm a MAJOR BITCH!!! Yet, we still need to make sure that are hair done, our eyebrows done, our legs smooth, our happy place smooth, smell nice, house clean, laundry done, in the BEST of f'n mood, otherwise, we're a bitch, serve our men. If we are sick, we suck it up with a smile and say, "what can I do for you?" Inside, your muscles hurt from working out, headache dealing from work, pissed off because the kids are acting up, wish that your family forgot about you, thinking about that assignment that is due.

The other day, I went to the gym earlier than I usually go. There were some girls, young girls, walking around in sports bra and shorts rolled down. All the guys staring with their tongues out (not really, but you know). So damn disgusting in my opinion. They got a wife at home, taking care of home business, and maybe they have a wife that takes care of herself.

I'm just thinking us women don't stand a chance with competition. You go out with your man, look nice, but there is going to be some chick that gets his attention.

It doesn't matter what the fuck you do. You just can't be enough. It's that whole variety thing. How do they go, show me a hot girl and you'll see a guy tired of fuckin' her or some bullshit like that. If they are going to be that way, then they need to learn how to give it up. Most of them finish to fast, small, or just basically suck. They don't do anything to work you up. All they want is for you to suck them, get them hard, so they can attempt to make you cum, and if you're lucky, you'll find a guy to reciprocate, but if he's under 25, good luck!!!!!!! Even if he licks the cat (under 25), most of the time, he is going to suck at it.

Forget it with porn. I'll be the first to admit, I LOVE porn, but to find a hot guy....riiiiighhtt!!!!! Good porn is a nice fit guy that is vocal. The only time you are going to find that is in gay porn. I think I'll pass. Women are beautiful and I can appreciate that, no doubt, but gotta love the fellas!!!

I could vent more, but I'm out of wine.

[Drunkmonk78]

Im sorry to hear you met a lot of guys that suck. I know how much some women work and dont get the appreciation they deserve.




Im not one of those guys that suck.....

[bantamweight_B]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

So, sometimes, I get so pissed off at this role that women are supposed to play.

I watched that show on Tyra about women going to strip clubs, and some of the women are saying that they like to go so that their man can see, but come home to them, which I totally understand, and I'm right there with them.

We are not supposed to like sex. We are supposed to like cleaning. We are supposed to want to be feminine.

Sometimes, I'm just not in the f'n mood. Yes, I work at home, but trying to figure out what the hell these ESL doctors are saying, looking up new medications, new medical equipment or procedures. Plus, dealing with everyday issues, and the fact that us girls that are into fitness, you are trying to get in a work out in between job and family. I know that if I don't get a work out in, I'm a MAJOR BITCH!!! Yet, we still need to make sure that are hair done, our eyebrows done, our legs smooth, our happy place smooth, smell nice, house clean, laundry done, in the BEST of f'n mood, otherwise, we're a bitch, serve our men. If we are sick, we suck it up with a smile and say, "what can I do for you?" Inside, your muscles hurt from working out, headache dealing from work, pissed off because the kids are acting up, wish that your family forgot about you, thinking about that assignment that is due.

The other day, I went to the gym earlier than I usually go. There were some girls, young girls, walking around in sports bra and shorts rolled down. All the guys staring with their tongues out (not really, but you know). So damn disgusting in my opinion. They got a wife at home, taking care of home business, and maybe they have a wife that takes care of herself.

I'm just thinking us women don't stand a chance with competition. You go out with your man, look nice, but there is going to be some chick that gets his attention.

It doesn't matter what the fuck you do. You just can't be enough. It's that whole variety thing. How do they go, show me a hot girl and you'll see a guy tired of fuckin' her or some bullshit like that. If they are going to be that way, then they need to learn how to give it up. Most of them finish to fast, small, or just basically suck. They don't do anything to work you up. All they want is for you to suck them, get them hard, so they can attempt to make you cum, and if you're lucky, you'll find a guy to reciprocate, but if he's under 25, good luck!!!!!!! Even if he licks the cat (under 25), most of the time, he is going to suck at it.

Forget it with porn. I'll be the first to admit, I LOVE porn, but to find a hot guy....riiiiighhtt!!!!! Good porn is a nice fit guy that is vocal. The only time you are going to find that is in gay porn. I think I'll pass. Women are beautiful and I can appreciate that, no doubt, but gotta love the fellas!!!

I could vent more, but I'm out of wine.

Sounds like you pick the wrong guys for the wrong reasons.Put down the wine & go workout a lot more

[Shwing79]

I'm not necessarily talking about guys I've met, but watching guys and talking to them.

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by bantamweight_B

.Put down the wine & go workout a lot more

PFFFT....Bite me. I work out 5-6 days a week.

[miss.m]

Your rant is enough to make me not want to get married! I guess the consolation prize is that women live longer.

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by miss.m

Your rant is enough to make me not want to get married! I guess the consolation prize is that women live longer.

DOOOON'T DO IT!! It's the worst idea.....EVER I find it much more comforting living with a guy, but I guess if you wanted to have kids, it's different.

[bantamweight_B]

Originally Posted by miss.m

Your rant is enough to make me not want to get married! I guess the consolation prize is that women live longer.

Its a rant allright!LMAO!!!!

[HangNin]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

DOOOON'T DO IT!! It's the worst idea.....EVER I find it much more comforting living with a guy, but I guess if you wanted to have kids, it's different.

Don't you mean "you find it much more comforting having an easy escape if things don't last"?? LOL

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by HangNin

Don't you mean "you find it much more comforting having an easy escape if things don't last"?? LOL

Exactly!!! Going through my divorce was difficult. I felt like a MAJOR LOOOOSER!!!!

[miss.m]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

DOOOON'T DO IT!! It's the worst idea.....EVER I find it much more comforting living with a guy, but I guess if you wanted to have kids, it's different.

Yeah there is nothing wrong with having a defacto relationship. I think I'll save marriage for when I have kids.

[benny2]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

Exactly!!! Going through my divorce was difficult. I felt like a MAJOR LOOOOSER!!!!

I'm a little cynical these days when it comes to marriage. In any other area of life, if someone asked us to sign a life long contract we would laugh at them.... and yet when it comes to marriage, for some reason its considered normal....

I think if you need a legally binding contract to feel secure in your relationship theres something wrong....

And yes my marriage was a complete fuck up...

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by benny2

I'm a little cynical these days when it comes to marriage. In any other area of life, if someone asked us to sign a life long contract we would laugh at them.... and yet when it comes to marriage, for some reason its considered normal....

I think if you need a legally binding contract to feel secure in your relationship theres something wrong....

And yes my marriage was a complete fuck up...

I think if you are going to have kids, it's different, or if you're old and you want to leave them some money, but I guess you could do power of attorney or something. The thought of marriage is really scary, especially if you have been through it before, and like me, I felt like a failure, even if it was for the best.

[benny2]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

especially if you have been through it before, and like me, I felt like a failure, even if it was for the best.

Yeah I know how that feelis

[benny2]

and as far porn goes - wtf??? . I dont think Ive ever watched porn where the guy isn't loud and vocal, its like its part of the job description.

I personally love noisy sex... theres nothing more arousing than a girl moaning in sexual pleasure, gasping for more... fuck I'm getting hard just thinking about it.

I've often wondered if its the same for girls... in terms of guys being loud

[Trex]

So,it must be so difficult being a woman.
I"m divorced, and have two daughters.There's no one that's is going to keep my house sparkling fresh,have dinner cooked,or have clean clothes waiting to put on the next day.I do it.Making breakfast,stepping on Chereo crumbs,work all day having to kiss ass to selfish people that do not even appreciate what you do for them,comming home,breaking up fights,giving baths,brushing tangles,reading bedtime stories, and then,maybe some actual quiet time.Yeah,right.Time for laundry,picking up sippy cups,cleaning countertops,picking up legos that can cripple you stepping on them in the dark,and just maybe,a simple dinner.
I'm not even going to start about windows,ovens,or baseboards.

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by Trex

So,it must be so difficult being a woman.
I"m divorced, and have two daughters.There's no one that's is going to keep my house sparkling fresh,have dinner cooked,or have clean clothes waiting to put on the next day.I do it.Making breakfast,stepping on Chereo crumbs,work all day having to kiss ass to selfish people that do not even appreciate what you do for them,comming home,breaking up fights,giving baths,brushing tangles,reading bedtime stories, and then,maybe some actual quiet time.Yeah,right.Time for laundry,picking up sippy cups,cleaning countertops,picking up legos that can cripple you stepping on them in the dark,and just maybe,a simple dinner.
I'm not even going to start about windows,ovens,or baseboards.

And this is typical of most men, right?

[Trex]

Originally Posted by Shwing79

And this is typical of most men, right?

No.There's actually guys that buy that spray starch stuff,and own an iron.I just buy the wash and wear clothing.Right out of the dryer,hang it all up on the shower curtain,and ready to go the next day.

[Shwing79]

Originally Posted by Trex

No.There's actually guys that buy that spray starch stuff,and own an iron.I just buy the wash and wear clothing.Right out of the dryer,hang it all up on the shower curtain,and ready to go the next day.

Yeah, ironing sucks. I really like the rack above the dryer, much more convinent. With that, no ironing at all!! WOOHOO!